Affection excess against the lover is indeed not something I will probably give birth to a sense of mutual need and always want to be next to him. As if the jargon of “wherever you go, I go,” you feel. Slowly a sense of wanting to always be with her creeper into a sense of dependence. You always felt incomplete and worry when he is not with you. Fair indeed, but all that is excessive is not good.
You're even willing to do anything to sacrifice your own happiness to your lover because of the taste ketergantunganmu it. If so you need to be vigilant when it all feels excruciating. What if some of the signs of dependence with the guy is already there in you, you should begin to limit what is considered excessive before the detriment of yourself.
1. All he has to say as well as commandment, create whatever you do should be with permission
Maybe underneath it all there is the well-meaning girl, but what he thinks is good for her too good for you? Don't swallow it raw what he said, the decision remains in your hands because you're running. Anyway the status of you guys are still dating, as if you were a legitimate partner in the eyes of the Lord. Until all that you do have to get permission first from him, what is he? Like that, how could you develop? Your youth is too dear, if to always listen to your girlfriend.
2. Not infrequently he's playing drama just to get your attention, and her temper's always melt you
Exaggerate small problems and play the drama as if he is a victim in every problem she face to attract your attention. Not infrequently he could start a fight when what is expected of you is not acquired. It is clearly not a good way to attract attention, or simply you yield a snap because of the anger as well as the words spoiled. Whereas you deserve to be firm if he is indeed wrong.
3. She can do anything because he knows you will do anything for her
He did know for sure, you will do whatever he wants. Therefore he also can act arbitrarily without you knowing it, is why especially if it is not love and a sense of dependency that is already blinding you. Although again you have to menomerduakan desire and your happiness just to make him more affectionate with you. The title “Slave of Love” it is improper you're sanding. Should you don't need to bother to meet his desire. If it is darling, he's also a lot will not sue you, is not it?
4. You always think that kebahagianmu it himself, and you just can't be happy without it
Although obviously you realize you're in a relationship is exhausting, but unfortunately the taste of love for her defeat your prejudice own. Fear without him greater overwhelm you, and it also makes you feel happy even though your heart is often injured. The desire to walk without him there ever was, uh, but if that remains you think is your happy is not complete without it. Difficult indeed if it were honey.
5. Although not comfortable, but for the sake of being what he wants, you're willing to change yourself only for him
For example, you're not a girl who likes to dress feminine, but for the sake of being that your boyfriend desire. You bela-people collected a lot of skirt and the clothes that obviously isn't like you. You should bother keeping how to sit and how to walk when you're wearing skirts and dressed as desired lover.
If indeed he intends to turn you towards a better hell it doesn't matter, but if what you are you changed only to fulfill his desire and not necessarily good for you. How long will you lose yourself?
6. Not only body and soul, but the material was already much you gave for her
Then the hell his name is Love Deplete the Savings. You are willing to spend a lot of money just for him, buy him a gift this is it, meet their needs and even the needs are not necessarily met. If he was not concerned with your needs and without doing the same thing, you should reduce the give a lot of material much for her. Not because it's not sincere, but you also need to provide a livelihood and your future, not just for your girlfriend only.
Because of a great love, a sense of dependence that is present. You should not hang your happy with her, she may only be a part of your happy not to dominate all your happiness.
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